The other day in Ian's Pre-K class, reports came back to me that there was a wedding. The wedding was between Ian and his buddy Andrew. The other kids in the class took on the roles of their parents and they play-acted out a wedding. I find this so sweet and love that these kids don't realize it is nontraditional. They act on their instincts and follow their feelings.
And in the same week, two girls Ian is friends with drew him pictures. One picture had the little girl, her mother, me, Samantha and Ian all holding hands together. The other picture was a bunch of letters and drawings on the paper - more of an abstract work of art. Both gestures were incredibly sweet and it makes me feel good that Ian is doing well getting along with both sexes and is genuinely liked by each.
Ah, what a great age this is. It is all so innocent and pure. I hope it continues for a long time. When the boys hug each other hello and good-bye. When they feel it is okay to do spontaneous weddings. When they can't wait to see each other at school and have playdates with the same kids afterwards because they feel like they haven't spent enough time together.
It is magical watching all this through their eyes. Please stay sweet and unguarded for a long time. And, next time remember to invite your mother to the wedding!!
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