Oh so sweet!

A week ago, the Toppall team loaded up the car and went to Hershey, PA for the weekend.   We went with two other families and did Hershey Park on Saturday and Chocolate World on Sunday.  It was very sweet (literally).  The kids did great traveling and we had a wonderful time.

Despite no one in my family (including me) liking rollercoasters, Hershey Park was perfect for us. There were a ton of rides the kids could go on and from 10:45am (when we arrived) until 4:00pm, we stayed dry.  Then the rain hit.  And we got wet.  Really wet. I joke that Jeff plans for every situation possible and was more than prepared for the rain.  Heck, we could be taken hostage in the park and survive just fine with the snacks, drinks, back-up clothing for Sam, umbrellas and rain jackets Jeff had going on.  But even with the kids wearing their rain gear, sitting on a ride while rain is pouring down, you are still going to get soaked.  I was able to wring out Ian's UNDERWEAR!!! when he was finally able to put on dry clothes again.  We did stay another hour in the rain and then made our way to the car.

The next day we were standing at Chocolate World when the doors opened.  Oh, what fun we had!  We all made our own Hershey bars, the kids did the Hershey Kiss packaging activity, we took the ride through how chocolate is made, and of course, checked out the enormous gift shop. 

We arrived home on Sunday afternoon and told the kids how proud we were of them.  You know a good time was had when the kids asked when we will be going back for a return visit.  It was a great mini-getaway. 

AT HERSHEY PARK:

Very first stop once inside the park -- to get Kettle Corn.  Really.

AT CHOCOLATE WORLD:

3 bald guys needing to wear a hair net.  :)

It should be noted this was our very first trip that we all managed to pack our stuff into one bag --the same bag!  This has never happened before.  As the kids get older, we are needing to bring much less with us when staying overnight somewhere.  And I am getting over my hang-up on having my clothes touch Jeff's in the suitcase.  It's actually quite exciting to look like we have our act together and we aren't bringing everything (plus the kitchen sink) into the hotel when checking in.

Oh Baby!

When I got married, I wanted everyone I knew to get married and experience this awesome kind of love.  Then when I had a baby, I wanted everyone I knew to have a baby and experience this amazing kind of love.

It is happening!  My sister Lori is due to give birth to a little girl on November 4th.  I could not wait to throw her a baby shower. What a great reason to have a party.  Lori's 4 close friends wanted to help and along with my other sister, Meghan (6 of us total!  Oh my!) we hosted a wonderful celebration for Lori and her condition.  :)  It was simply perfect.

We held the shower at an Italian restaurant in the Orlando area. The restaurant is normally closed for lunch on Saturday and Sundays, but they opened special for us.  Our group of women fit perfectly in their screened-in (air conditioned!) patio.  We chose a "Onesie" theme and carried it through everything you could imagine. The colors were pink and brown.  It was adorable, if I do say so myself.

Banner that said "Baby Wronsky"



Cake - looked just like the invitation.

We had a clothesline with onesies hanging.  A few of the onesies said: 
"Mom thinks she's In charge.  That's so cute."
"Watch out Daddy, Mommy has a new shopping buddy."
"My daddy can play the guitar better than yours."
"BYOB.  Party at my crib 2:00am"

We had paper in the shape of onesies to write advice to Lori
on having a baby.  We put it in a binder and presented it to her.

Place setting at the table.

The room all set-up.

All 6 of us who hosted.

Decorated cookie to give as favor to our guests.

The guest of honor entering the room.

Mom, Lori, me, Meghan, Rita.

Ben (future daddy) stops by at the end to say hello.

I loved how it turned out.  Lori did too!  I am anxiously awaiting the next 6 weeks when we get to meet the newest member of the family. 

It doesn't get better than this.

Each time I visit my family in Orlando, I get a nagging thought in my head that maybe I should've moved back to my hometown after college.  I am super close with both parents and siblings.  It's hard only seeing them around 4 times a year. 

When we are together, it's like all the pieces of a puzzle are back in place.  At the core of it, we love to spend time together.  We really do love each other's company.  I am so blessed to have these wonderful people as my family.  We have a great time and the laughter, teasing, and reminiscing is usually non-stop.  We are there for each other and look out for each other.  In times of need, we can count on each other - no matter what the distance.

Me and my two sisters. I am not only the oldest, but also the shortest.  :)

Even with my parents divorced and each remarried, we still get together as group.  It is pretty spectacular to fly into town and have your stepmother plan for us to all have dinner together on a Friday night, even though we will all be seeing each other again the next night at Lori's house.  And of course again, at the baby shower on Sunday.

I got to spend a great afternoon with my dad on Friday. He picked me up at the airport and then we ran errands together.  It was very ordinary, but so special getting to go around with him.  Just like old times.  And on Saturday, my sister Meghan and I spent  few hours pool side and then headed to the movies with Lori and Rita.  What a great way to pass the time.

If I had moved back, I know that I wouldn't have met Jeff or had the kids I have now, so I am grateful that I did stay up in this area.  I guess this means I just need to plan more trips down to Florida to see everyone.

Sam has found her groove.

We've turned a corner.  Sam has settled into kindergarten.  Towards the latter part of the week, I could see a change in her. No longer did we need to put her lovey, Pinky, in her backpack each day. And on Thursday and Friday, she didn't once chant to herself, "I don't want to go.  I don't want to go."

Sam has started learning some of the girls' names in her class. This is HUGE!  She is even telling us about the funny things that are going on in her day. 

I am still waiting for the moment that Sam discovers the school nurse.  One trip to see her and I get a call to come pick Sam up early from school.   I know Sam is smart enough to figure this out. How long will it be before that light bulb goes off over head?

Adjusting.

The school year has started off with a bang!  For the most part, all of our scheduled activities have kicked in and are underway.  All we need is for Ian and Sam's religious school on Sunday mornings and Ian's session on Tuesday evenings to begin.

Mondays (school lets out at 1:15pm): 
Sam has swimming from 3:00pm to 3:30pm
Ian has gymnastics from 6:00pm to 8:00pm

Tuesdays: 
Ian has religious school from 4:30pm to 6:15pm

Wednesdays:
Sam and I are in therapy together from 5:00pm to 6:00pm
Ian has gymnastics from 6:00pm to 8:00pm

Sunday:
Sam and Ian have religious school from 9:00am to 12:00pm

It's a good thing that both kids are at the same school for the same hours, because I am busier than a one-armed paper hanger!  My job at the preschool is now fully up to speed. For three of the days during the week, I leave the preschool and go straight to work for The Crazy Man.  I end my time with him at 3:30pm and get the kids from school at 3:45pm. 

I am doing something new this year and walking to get the kids.  I have just enough time to park the car at my house and do the 6 minute walk to the kid's school.  I am really enjoying the few minutes I get to breathe in some fresh air and decompress a bit from my day.  Plus it gives me a few minutes to chat with Ian and Sam on the way back home, about their day and not be distracted with other things.

Some drawbacks to working every single minute the kids are in school?  I'm definitely hitting my limits on what I can remember in my head.  I need to write every thing down.  I have an endless list on the refrigerator of household-type stuff to do.  And I have a notebook for each of the jobs with their list of to-dos.  It's the only thing keeping me sane.  Plus, I am way behind on writing this blog.  I love being able to keep a diary of our lives.  I have a list of about 10 blog entries I want to write and just don't have a spare 10 minutes to do so.  I usually try to catch-up on the weekends, but this past weekend was my trip to Orlando for Lori's baby shower (more on that later) and this coming weekend is another getaway. 

The house being clean has suffered too.  Actually, Jeff has cleaned the bathrooms and done the kids' wash more than I have this past month.  Thanks, honey!  It's hard to see areas I want to "attack" and not have chunks of time to do so.  By the time dinner is done, the dishes are washed and homework has been completed (both kids),  I am done for the day.  No matter how badly I want to write or clean, it just ain't happening.  Waking up at 5:30am (to get to the gym) comes very quickly!  I am proud of myself for not getting too hung up on this, but its still hard to let it go.

I can't complain.  I am enjoying everything I am doing and can't beat the flexibility.  When the kids are off from school, so am I.  I don't have to worry about after-school childcare or what happens when they get sick.  I can still be there for them and bring in a little money.  Not a bad combo.  And I've built in my schedule an hour or so on Fridays that I can meet friends for lunch.  Or you know, surprise the kids at school during their lunch. :)

Sam and school.

This past Monday, starting off the 2nd week of school:

Sam wakes up.  I catch her before she comes downstairs.

Me:  Sam, let's get you dressed while you are still up here.
Sam:  What do I have today?
Me:  It's school.
Sam:  AW!  Not again!!

Yep.  Better get used to it.  :)

On Tuesday, we had our best day yet.  She didn't utter one word about not wanting to go.  She happily got dressed, eagerly brushed her teeth, and with a smile on her face made her way to the bus.  I was so excited and optimistically hoped we were out of the woods.

Wednesday, however, brought on real tears.  It started as the bus pulled up to the curb.  She looked at me and said she didn't want to go to school.  I told her it was not optional and she had to go.  She was the first one on the bus (kindergartners get on first), but was not pleased about climbing onboard.  The bus driver looked at Sam and asked her what was wrong.  I am thinking to myself:  Don't slow her down!  She is walking up the steps, let her continue.  Asking her what is wrong is like opening Pandora's box...not a wise move.  Sam mumbled something and kept going.  Once seated, she looked out the window.  I was standing there making funny faces getting her to smile. Eventually the bus pulled away and Sam was on her way.

Later that afternoon, I had a surprising turn of events and The Crazy Man called me at 12:30pm and said he wasn't feeling well.  He asked me not to come work for him.  I decided to take a chance and surprise Sam at school for lunch.  My only concern was that she would have a hard time saying good-bye to me again when her lunch period was over.  Fortunately, all went well and Sam loved seeing me.  She was completely okay with me leaving her side 35 minutes later.  Sam had no issues giving me a hug and lining up with her class.  Whew!  It was the right thing to do going to see her.  It made my day and I am pretty sure it made hers too.  As a bonus,  I was able to get there 15 minutes early and find Ian in the cafeteria.  Oh, how I love to surprise him too!  He never knows when I am going to show up.  It's pretty fabulous -- probably more for me, than for him.  :)

Sam and I having lunch together at school.

It's funny watching the kids at Sam's table eat lunch.  None of them speak to each other.  They just all sit there and silently eat.  Meanwhile, the rest of the cafeteria is loud enough to burst an ear drum or two.  I attempted conversation with all of Sam's classmates sitting directly around us, but none of them were talkers. It will be interesting to see when these kids start to come out of their shells.

Seeing Sam's face light up when she spotted me at lunch was definitely the bright spot of my day.

Girls with their dolls - Take 3

Our tradition of going to the American Girl Doll Store with our friends to celebrate the return of school is alive and kicking.  Sam's behavior this year was the best yet.  She earned her new outfit for McKenna and was very happy going shopping before sitting down to lunch.  And in a move that shows how smart Sam really is, she prepped me far in advance that she wanted a strawberry milkshake with lunch (just like she got last year).  The sun was shinning, the birds were singing, and I was happy Sam was in a great mood.  How could I say no?

I love our tradition.  I love traditions in general.  This was our third year in a row to go with our friends.  And there are no signs of stopping.  I am sure at some point the girls will be too old to want to do this and of course, do it with us, but I hope that's a long way off in the future.

All whining stopped when we got out of the car.

School is back in session = one happy group!

Sam and her milkshake!